Soften

/ˈsɒfən/

Meaning & Definition

verb

To make or become less hard or severe.

The gentle heat will soften the butter, making it easier to spread.

To make less harsh or severe, often in terms of tone or nature.

The manager decided to soften her criticism to avoid discouraging the team.

To lessen the intensity or force of something.

The new evidence helped to soften the public's opinion of the controversial policy.

To relieve in intensity or to calm down.

They tried to soften the blow of the news by preparing him beforehand.

To make more tender or gentle in disposition.

Over the years, his experiences have softened his once tough demeanor.

Middle English 'soffenen', from Old French 'soffrir', based on Latin 'mollificare' meaning 'to make soft'.

soften the blow

To make a negative experience less painful.

soften one's stance

To adopt a less rigid position on an issue.

soften up

To coax someone into being less demanding or harsh.

soft

Having a pleasingly gentle quality.

gentle

Having or showing a mild, kind, or tender temperament.

mellow

Soft, rich, and well-matured; relaxed and easy-going.

To chill out or relax.

You need to soften up and enjoy the moment.

To be more approachable or friendly.

He was really tough, but when he softened, he was cool.