Meaning & Definition
noun
The quality or state of being self-centered or concerned excessively with one's own advantage to the exclusion of others.
Her selfishness was evident when she refused to share her toys with her friends.
Concern for one's own welfare or interests without regard for others.
The selfishness of their actions led to a breakdown in relationships within the team.
The act of prioritizing personal benefit at the expense of others' needs or feelings.
His selfishness showed when he accepted the promotion without considering the impact on his colleagues.
A lack of consideration for others' feelings or well-being.
Her selfishness meant that she often overlooked the sacrifices her friends made for her.
Etymology
From self + -ish + -ness.
Common Phrases and Expressions
put oneself first:
To prioritize one's own needs or desires above all else.
in it for oneself:
Acting primarily with one's own benefit in mind.
me first:
A selfish attitude that places one's own pleasure as the priority.
Slang Meanings
Me-first mentality
He has such a me-first mentality that he never thinks about anyone else.
All about me
Her attitude is all about me; she doesn't care about group decisions.