Meaning & Definition of word "Selfishness"

Selfishness

/ˈsɛlfɪʃnɛs/

noun:

  • 1. The quality or state of being self-centered or concerned excessively with one's own advantage to the exclusion of others.
    • Example: Her selfishness was evident when she refused to share her toys with her friends.
  • 2. Concern for one's own welfare or interests without regard for others.
    • Example: The selfishness of their actions led to a breakdown in relationships within the team.
  • 3. The act of prioritizing personal benefit at the expense of others' needs or feelings.
    • Example: His selfishness showed when he accepted the promotion without considering the impact on his colleagues.
  • 4. A lack of consideration for others' feelings or well-being.
    • Example: Her selfishness meant that she often overlooked the sacrifices her friends made for her.

Etymology

From self + -ish + -ness.

Common Phrases and Expressions

put oneself first:

To prioritize one's own needs or desires above all else.

in it for oneself:

Acting primarily with one's own benefit in mind.

me first:

A selfish attitude that places one's own pleasure as the priority.

Related Words

self-centered:

Concerned only with one's own thoughts and interests.

narcissistic:

Having an excessive interest in oneself and one's appearance.

egotistical:

Excessively conceited or absorbed in oneself.

Slang Meanings of selfishness

Meaning: Me-first mentality

Example Sentence: He has such a me-first mentality that he never thinks about anyone else.

Meaning: All about me

Example Sentence: Her attitude is all about me; she doesn't care about group decisions.