Incongruous

/ɪnˈkɒŋɡruəs/

Meaning & Definition

adjective
not in harmony or keeping with the surroundings or other aspects of something; out of place.
She wore an incongruous outfit that clashed with the formal dress code of the event.
lacking propriety; inappropriate.
His laughter during the serious meeting was incongruous and unsettling.
contradictory; disagreeing.
The incongruous nature of the comedian's sad jokes left the audience confused.

Etymology

Latin 'incongruus', meaning 'inconsistent, unsuitable'.

Common Phrases and Expressions

incongruous behavior
actions that seem inconsistent with the expected norms.
incongruous situation
a circumstance that appears ill-suited to the context.

Related Words

incongruence
the state of being incongruous.
incongruously
in a manner that is not harmonious.

Slang Meanings

awkward or ill-fitting.
His attempt to fit in felt very incongruous during the serious discussion.
out of sync.
Her upbeat attitude was incongruous with the somber setting.