Hector
/ˈhɛktər/
Meaning & Definition
noun
a person who intimidates or bullies others.
The hector in the group made it difficult for anyone to voice their opinions openly.
verb
to bully or intimidate someone.
The manager would hector his employees into working overtime without additional pay.
to tease or annoy someone in a bullying way.
He started to hector her about her choices in music, making her feel belittled.
to use threats or aggressive behavior to force someone to do something.
They tried to hector the student into giving up his summer plans.
Etymology
Late 19th century: named after Hector, a hero in Greek mythology who was known for his strength and defiance.
Common Phrases and Expressions
hectoring tone
A tone that is aggressive or domineering.
to hector someone
To bully or intimidate someone into submission.
Related Words
bully
A person who uses strength or influence to harm or intimidate others.
intimidate
To frighten or overawe someone, especially in order to make them do what one wants.
Slang Meanings
To mess with someone or give them a hard time.
Stop hectoring me about my homework!
To boss someone around or act superior.
He always hectors the new hires until they get it right.