Grudge

/ɡrʌdʒ/

Meaning & Definition

noun
A persistent feeling of ill will or resentment resulting from a past insult or injury.
She held a grudge against him for not inviting her to the wedding.
A reason for feeling resentment.
His grudge over the promotion was evident in his behavior.
verb
To be resentful or unwilling to give or allow something.
I don't grudge him his success; he worked hard for it.
To give or allow with reluctance.
She grudged the time it took to help him.

Etymology

Middle English: from Old French 'grouchier' meaning 'to murmur' or 'grumble'.

Common Phrases and Expressions

bear a grudge
To continue feeling anger or resentment against someone.
harbor a grudge
To keep feelings of resentment or ill will inside.
hold a grudge
To maintain a feeling of resentment.

Related Words

resent
To feel bitterness or indignation at having been treated unfairly.
animosity
Strong hostility or hatred.

Slang Meanings

Throwing shade
She's been throwing shade at him ever since they had that argument.
Holding onto the past
Stop holding onto the past; let go of that grudge.