Cajole

/kəˈdʒoʊl/

Meaning & Definition

verb
To persuade someone to do something by sustained coaxing or flattery.
She tried to cajole her friend into going to the party with her.
To obtain something from someone by deception or flattery.
He managed to cajole a free meal from the restaurant staff.
To induce or influence a person to act in a desired way.
The teacher used every trick in the book to cajole her students into studying for the exam.
To persuade someone to take a particular action or adopt a certain attitude, often in a gentle or deceptive manner.
They attempted to cajole the committee into approving the project.

Etymology

French 'cajoler', derived from 'cage' or 'to cage' in relation to the action of entrapment.

Common Phrases and Expressions

cajole someone into
To persuade someone to take action, often against their better judgment.
cajole one's way in
To manage to gain entry or access by means of flattery or persuasion.

Related Words

coax
To gently persuade someone to do something.
wheedle
To use flattery to persuade someone to do something.
inveigle
To entice or lure by flattery or deception.

Slang Meanings

Sweet-talk
He's a master of sweet-talking his way out of trouble.
Butter up
She tried to butter him up before asking for a favor.