Flatter

/ˈflætər/

Meaning & Definition

verb
To praise excessively or falsely, often to ingratiate oneself.
She flattered her boss in hopes of getting a promotion.
To show or express admiration or affection.
He flattered his friend by complimenting her artwork.
To evoke a feeling of pleasure or pride in someone.
It flattered him to know that his work was appreciated by his peers.

Etymology

Middle English 'flatoren', from Old French 'flater', of uncertain origin.

Common Phrases and Expressions

flatter someone
To compliment or praise someone in a way that is not sincere.
flattering remarks
Comments that are intended to praise or appeal positively.
flatter to deceive
To give excessive praise with the intent to mislead someone.

Related Words

admire
To regard with wonder, pleasure, or approval.
praise
To express warm approval or admiration.
compliment
To say something nice about someone.

Slang Meanings

To butter up
He's just trying to butter you up so you'll lend him some money.
To sweet-talk
She sweet-talked her way into a promotion by flattering the boss.